A Fervor More Feverish Than Before

•Sunday, April 5, 2009 • 1 Comment

Homily for Palm Sunday of the Lord’s Passion
Preached on April 5, 2009 at Mary, Queen of the Holy Rosary Church, Lexington KY
Readings: Mark 11:1-10; Isaiah 50:4-7; Psalm 22:8-9, 17-18, 19-20, 23-24; Philippians 2:6-11; Mark 14:1-15:47

A hundred people or so gathered at the Bluegrass Airport Tuesday night, awaiting the arrival of the new coach from Memphis. They were staunch fans eager to give the coach a warm welcome into Big Blue territory. The TV stations tell us that he ended up flying in at another local airport, but the message of that spontaneous gathering was clear: The fans want this coach. They are eager to meet this coach. They want to support this coach.

Any coach will tell you that zealous fans like these are the best of fans, but they also can be the worst of enemies and the harshest of critics. Quite often the ones who are most eager to welcome a coach, wine and dine him, pat his back and shake his hand, and carry him over their shoulders after a win, are also the ones who are the first to boo at lousy defense on the court or turn their backs after a huge loss. In a way, I can understand their motivation: true Blue fans do not settle for anything less than a victory. For them, mediocrity is not part of the multi-million dollar deal.

Some two thousand years ago, another crowd gathered at the gates of Jerusalem to welcome Someone more important into their city. His name was Jesus. They “spread their cloaks on the road, and others spread leafy branches that they had cut from the fields” (Mk. 11:8). “They took palm branches and went out to meet Him” (Jn. 12:13). “Those preceding Him as well as those following kept crying out, ‘Hosanna! Blessed is the kingdom of our father David that is to come. Hosanna in the highest!’” (Mk. 11:9-10). The message was clear: this crowd wanted Jesus to be their Messiah. They were eager to praise Him as the promised Savior, the heir to the throne of David the king.

And yet this same crowd that welcomed Jesus with Hosannas and palm branches was also the same crowd that shook their fists at Him and cried out, “Crucify Him!” (Mk. 15:13, 14). He was not the Messiah that they had expected. They had expected a monarch who would drive out the Roman army and restore the grandeur that was David’s kingdom. They had wanted someone who would come down in the form of a God in glory but only saw one who had “emptied Himself, taking the form of a slave, coming in human likeness” (Phil. 2:7). In a way, we can understand their motivation: the crowds were not going to settle for anything less than glory. For them, humility and humiliation were not part of the messianic plan.

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Indeed, we see how the enthusiasm of fans only goes back to the last victory, how the fervor of the crowd only goes back to Jesus’ last great miracle. We know that we are plagued by the same short memory that has disheartened those fans in the arenas of the Southeastern Conference and that crowd in the alleys of Jerusalem. We too tend to be shortsighted: we who had welcomed Christ with palm branches and Hosannas at the beginning are the same crowd that had just cried out “Crucify Him!”

That is why, year after year, we proclaim this Passion of the Lord together so that we might not be caught in the snares of that short memory, so that we will never forget the price that was paid for our sake. We are called to remember who we are, the disciples of Christ who are still trying to stay awake at the garden of Gethsemane, still trying to summon up the courage to acknowledge Jesus at that courtyard, still trying to reject the bribe offered by the world to turn our backs to Him and His Gospel. Today, we read His Passion and enter into the mysteries of this Holy Week so that our enthusiasm will keep on burning within our hearts, so that our fervor does not fade away, so that, despite the beating, the buffets, and spitting that life throws at us, we can set our faces like flint, knowing that we shall not be put to shame because the Lord God is our help (cf. Is. 50:7). The Passion of our Lord is the word that will rouse those who have grown weary (cf. Is. 50:4) with the trials and temptations of life; it is the powerful memory that will move us to confess even to the end of the age that Jesus Christ, not in spite of but because of His humility and humiliation, is Lord and Victor and Messiah and Savior, to the glory of God the Father (cf. Phil. 2:11).

Take then with you this Passion of our Lord, keep this rousing word in mind, remember this moving memory of His sacrifice and His victory, so that, at His glorious return, He will find us waiting with the palm branches of our redeemed lives, our fervor more feverish than ever before, singing our full-throated and convincing song: “Holy! Holy! Holy Lord God of power and might! Heaven and earth are full of Your Glory. Hosanna in the Highest! Blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord. Hosanna in the Highest!”

Lesson Learned

•Monday, January 5, 2009 • Leave a Comment

Homily for the Memorial of Saint John Neumann, Bishop

Preached on January 5, 2009 at Mary, Queen of the Holy Rosary Church, Lexington KY

Readings: 1 John 3:22-4:6; Psalm 2:7bc-8, 10-12a; Matthew 4:12-17, 23-25

 

Jesus could have learned from what had happened to John the Baptist. He could have picked up that proclaiming the Gospel of the Kingdom would also land Him behind bars. He could have packed His things then and gone home to Nazareth. He could have been discouraged by the turn of events, and yet He wasn’t. Instead of trying to save His own skin, Jesus went on harm’s way to preach and say, “Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand” (Mt. 4:17).  Instead of sticking to His comfort zone, He went to Galilee of the Gentiles, to the people who sit in darkness, to those dwelling in a land overshadowed by death (Mt. 4:15-16). Instead of being discouraged by John’s arrest, He was inspired to go forth and do the will of His Heavenly Father. Three years after He first preached the Gospel, He was arrested by the authorities and was nailed to a cross.

 

nullJohn Neumann could have learned from what had happened to Jesus. He could have picked up that proclaiming the Gospel of the Kingdom would also get him into a whole lot of trouble. But, instead of giving up on his vocation to the priesthood, he left his homeland, a country that was overstocked with priests, and went to America, a place he had not seen, a nation that even then was hardly Catholic. He could have been discouraged by the demands of missionary work in the United States and packed his things and gone home to Bohemia, and yet he persevered. Instead of giving up on ministering to new Irish immigrants, he learned Gaelic so that he could hear their confessions. Instead of giving up on the overwhelming task of teaching the Faith, Bishop Neumann increased the number of Catholic schools  in his diocese from two to 100. Instead of being discouraged by Christ’s cross, he was inspired to go forth and carry his own cross. Twenty four years after he was ordained in America, he suffered a stroke and died alone on a snow-covered sidewalk in Philadelphia.

 

We could learn from what had happened to John the Baptist, John Neumann, and our Lord Jesus Christ. We could pick up that proclaiming the Gospel of the Kingdom is a very dangerous and demanding activity, even in our own time. We could learn from what had happened to them how to fear some of the repercussions of preaching the Good News: getting arrested, dying on a city sidewalk, being crucified.  We could be discouraged by their stories, and yet we are not. Instead, John the Baptist, John Neumann, and our Lord Jesus inspire us because we learn more from them than from what had happened to them. We learn from John the Baptist how to have the courage to stand up for what is right. We learn from John Neumann how to have the zeal to share the Good News of our salvation to everyone, regardless of age, language, or nationality. We learn from our Lord Jesus how to love without ever holding anything back, how to love even our enemies.

 

We could learn from what had happened to Christ and His saints and then live in fear on this earth. But why would we do that? Instead, we can learn from them the conviction that, in spite of everything that this world has to offer, the Kingdom of Heaven is still worth it all.

Pro-Christ or Anti-Christ?

•Friday, January 2, 2009 • Leave a Comment

Homily for the Memorial of Saints Basil the Great and Gregory Nazianzen, Bishops and Doctors of the Church

Preached on January 2, 2009 at Mary, Queen of the Holy Rosary Church, Lexington KY

Readings: 1 John 2:22-28; Psalm 98:1, 2-3ab, 3cd-4; John 1:19-28

 

The three of them went to school together. They had met in Athens where they had gone to study rhetoric. Each one came from a distinguished and well-educated family: Basil belonged to a family that had three generations of saints. Gregory’s father was the bishop of his hometown. Julian was a member of the Imperial Family. Everyone in school could tell that they were destined for greatness, and it didn’t take that much time before each of them rose to prominence. Basil the lawyer eventually was ordained a bishop. Gregory the teacher was later raised to the dignity of the Patriarch of Constantinople. And Julian the scholar ascended to the purple and was crowned Emperor of Rome.

 

nullHere we have three men who have studied together yet today we venerate only two of them as saints: Basil who is called the Revealer of the Heavenly Mysteries, and Gregory who is known as the Theologian. The third man, Julian, who had risen to the throne of Caesar, had since been known as the Apostate, the one who had abandoned and rejected the Faith.

 

These three men went to school together, but it was Julian who allowed himself to be misled by the lies of pagan philosophies. Instead of remaining in the Faith that he had heard from the beginning, he denied that Jesus is the Christ (1 Jn. 2:22) and simply referred to Him as ‘the Galilean.’ He turned his back on the Church and worshipped false gods. He became an anti-Christ, a man set against Christ, a man who denied the Father and the Son (1 Jn. 2:22).

 

But, Basil and Gregory would not be misled by any anti-Christs; they firmly stood pro-Christ, as men who remained for Christ. They were faithful to the Church and professed the Nicene Creed. They believed in the truth of the Gospel and preached that Jesus is Lord and God.

 

Basil and Gregory put their faith in the words of the Lord: “I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life” (Jn. 14:6). They believed that Jesus is the Way and followed Him. They believed that He is the Truth and trusted Him. They believed that He is the Life and served Him. In return they received the promise that the Lord made us: eternal life (1 Jn. 2:25).

 

Julian however had no faith in the words of the Lord. He denied that Jesus is the Way and found himself lost. He denied that Jesus is the Truth and was deceived by the lies of idols. He denied that Jesus is the Life and, in the end, found himself dying, defeated, and in despair, crying out one last time anti-Christ, against Christ, “You have won, O Galilean!”

 

Today, these three schoolmates bring to us this lesson: even an emperor is no match for the Galilean. Julian learned this lesson the hard way. But Basil and Gregory knew it all along. That is why they gave up their promising careers in law and rhetoric to serve Him whom Julian called ‘the Galilean.’ Yes, their family background and their education have destined them for greatness, but Basil and Gregory knew that only Jesus Christ can give them and us “a future full of hope” (Jer. 29:11).

Everything Is Made Right

•Thursday, January 1, 2009 • Leave a Comment

Homily for the Solemnity of the Blessed Virgin Mary, the Mother of God
Preached on December 31, 2008 and January 1, 2009 at Mary, Queen of the Holy Rosary Church, Lexington KY

Readings: Numbers 6:22-27; Psalm 67:2-3, 5, 6, 8; Galatians 4:4-7; Luke 2:16-21

Everything that could go wrong did on that night. 

First, “there was no room for them in the inn” (Lk. 2:7). I suppose that Joseph, who probably never bothered to ask for directions to Bethlehem, also forgot to make reservations for him and his pregnant wife for census day. Second, the only empty nook that Joseph could find in all of David’s city was in an animal house. Sure, there was fresh hay for the maternity bed, but they also had to share the space with the livestock. Third, the carpenter forgot to pack the cradle he had made for the Baby. And so, Joseph and Mary had to make do with what was available: the manger (cf. Lk. 2:7) from which the donkeys and the oxen had just eaten their dinner. Fourth, their very first guests were shepherds who lived with their flock and most assuredly smelled like their flock. I’m sure that Joseph and Mary were very welcoming to that rugged band that had come from the pasture to see the newborn Child. But I also wonder, after they had heard the shepherds’ story of the multitude of the heavenly host that had proclaimed this glorious birth (cf. Lk. 2: 11-13), whether they had wished that at least one angel could have found his way to proclaim the same thing to an innkeeper in Bethlehem and convinced the said innkeeper to give them an upgrade from the stable.

This list of what went wrong could have driven many a pregnant woman to a hissy fit and yet the Evangelist tells us that “Mary kept all these things, reflecting on them in her heart” (Lk. 2:19). This woman but a chapter before in the Gospel broke into a canticle of praise—she sang: “My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord; my spirit rejoices in God my Savior” (Lk. 1:46-47)—when she visited her relative Elizabeth. And yet, this woman now is silent, not making any complaints, and even we know that there is a laundry list that she could have complained about. She now is silent, keeping instead in her heart the things that have happened that silent night. On the night of her greatest joy, the birth of her firstborn Son who is the Savior of the world, Mary found no words. Were this a movie musical, we would have expected her to break into song again. In fact, a whole choir of angels already did. But Mary kept silent in the face of mystery because she knew that on this night when everything went wrong, everything has been made right.

Just when we thought that everything had gone wrong, what Micah the prophet had foretold had come true: from Bethlehem has gone forth a ruler in Israel (Mi 5:2). Just when we thought that everything had gone wrong, what Isaiah the seer had said was found in that stable all forlorn: the virgin has borne a Son (Is. 7:14). Just when we thought that everything had gone wrong, what the angel Gabriel had called this child was now His name: Jesus (Lk. 2:21). Just when we thought that everything had gone wrong, everything had come to pass exactly as God had planned.

Year after year after year, we hear of the unraveling of God’s plan in the birth of the Christ-child and I’ve wondered whether we’ve realized how crazy this plan is, at least according to our human standards. Here we have a mother who remains a virgin, God who is made man, and we who are the slaves of sin raised to the status of God’s sons and daughters, made by Him to be the heirs of His Kingdom (Gal. 4:7). Perhaps, that is why Mary kept all these things in her heart (Lk. 2:19), to ponder on what wondrous love this is, to reflect on this marvelous exchange of our humanity for the Lord’s divinity, to sit back in awe at the fact that despite all our wrongs God still chooses to set us right.

While the world around us admires the fireworks display of the New Year and watches in anticipation a ball dropping in a New York square, Mary the Mother of God invites us to be mesmerized again by the heavenly things of our salvation the splendor and wonder of which have not faded, even with the passing of two thousand years. In this world where everything seems to go wrong, Mary calls us back to the serenity of that stable. She says to us: Hush now; everything will be all right.

Wedding Homily: Love is a Family Tradition

•Saturday, December 27, 2008 • Leave a Comment

Homily for the Nuptial Mass uniting Stacey Pagorek to Patrick Beattie
Preached on December 27, 2008 at Mary, Queen of the Holy Rosary Church, Lexington KY
Readings: Sirach 3:2-6, 12-14; Psalm 105:1-2, 3-4, 5-6, 8-9; Colossians 3:12-17; Luke 2:22-40

Patrick and Stacey, all the days of your life, you will look back on this day, the 27th of December, and the two digits of this date will remind you of a couple of things about this wedding. The numbers two and seven will bring back a flood of memories: the number two for the two short weeks that you spent planning this wedding, and the number seven for the seven long years that you spent dating.

All the days of your life, you will look back on this day, the Feast of the Holy Family, and this feast will remind you that at the hour when you vowed your undying love for each other you were surrounded by family. You will remember that you stood here in God’s house, asking the Lord to grant you the blessing to start your own family, to give you the grace to be faithful and loving to each other as husband and wife. You will remember that you stood here in God’s house as adults in your own right, with your parents standing right next to you and holding in their hands the candles that were used at your baptism and at your First Communion. Your parents were the first ones to bring you to God’s house some thirty years ago to be baptized and to be named as children of God. They were the ones who brought you up in the faith of God’s family, the Church, and you honor them now by what you do today here in God’s house. As you pledge your love for each other before the Lord’s altar, you are letting your parents know that the faith that they have taught you, the faith they have shared with you, the faith they have raised you matters, and that the God whom they love, honor, and worship is the same God whom both of you seek to love, honor, and worship. You honor your fathers and you revere your mothers, and in return, as Sirach reminds us, the Lord assures you His blessings of a long life, atonement for your sins, and a house raised in justice to you (cf. Sir. 3:3, 6, 14).

All the days of your life, you will find yourselves looking back to the homes of your childhood and you will realize that the bulk of your preparation for marriage and family life has come not from the Pre-Cana sessions and classes you had with me but from the families you grew up in. To put it in another way, you did not know it but you were homeschooled for marriage. Indeed, it is the example of your parents that you will turn to in building your own family and in dealing with each other as husband and wife. That can be a good thing and that can be a bad thing. After all, you have learned from them some good habits and some bad habits: how to make lists, how to make a mess and live with that mess, and I’ll let you fill in the rest of the blanks. But, you know, Stacey, the fact that Patrick lived with your parents for three years and still wants to marry you and be a member of your family, tells me that he has found much to respect in the family life of the Pagoreks. The fact that your parents approve of him to be your husband also tells me that they too have come to appreciate how he has been raised by the Beatties. There is no doubt in my mind that there is a wealth of wisdom and support and love that comes from your families of origin.

The child Jesus Himself whose birth we celebrated just two days ago was born into a human family. He “grew and became strong, filled with wisdom” (Lk. 2: 40), thanks to the parents who raised Him in that home in Nazareth. Mary His mother and Joseph His foster-father were the ones who guided this Christ-Child who was “destined for the fall and rise of many in Israel” (Lk. 2:34). Jesus experienced the length and breadth and depth of selfless love from His parents. He learned from Joseph how to be a righteous man, how to ignore shame for the sake of love. He learned from Mary how to say yes to the Father in Heaven, how to bear the joys and the sorrows, how to stand by one’s family even to that final ignominious hour beneath the cross. Jesus learned from the sacrifices of His parents how to offer sacrifice, how to give without counting the cost, how to love without ever holding back. And here, beneath the shadow of His cross, beneath the sign of Christ’s love that never held anything back, you, Patrick and Stacey, will promise to love and honor each other today and all the days of your life. This cross is the love that you have to live up to. It is the bond of perfection (Col. 3:14) that St. Paul reminds you to put on, the love he calls you to clothe yourselves with. It is the love that your parents first introduced you to when they presented you to God’s temple to be counted as one of God’s own. It is the love that you are now charged to teach to your own children and to your children’s children. Believing in that love and living by that love is your family tradition; it has been handed over to you by your families of origin—the Hares and the Beatties, the Pagoreks and the Wohadlos—and it has been handed over to them by our family of faith—the Church—going back to the Apostles and the house Churches of the first century, to Jesus and the Holy Family, to God Himself who is Love.

Patrick and Stacey, you’ve had two weeks of wedding planning and seven years of dating. Here we are now in the middle of the hour for the Nuptial Mass. Here, beneath the shadow of Christ’s cross, the altar of God awaits for what both of you have to offer: the promise to love and to be true in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, all the days of your life.

Wedding Homily: Match Made in Heaven

•Saturday, August 2, 2008 • Leave a Comment

Homily for the Nuptial Mass uniting April Broadus to Patrick Sword

Preached on August 2, 2008 at Mary, Queen of the Holy Rosary Church, Lexington KY

Readings: Genesis 2:18-24; Psalm 103:1-2, 8, 13, 17-18a; Colossians 3:12-17; John 15:9-12

 

Some of us here today know that this is a ‘match made in Bunco.’ But, don’t get too excited now; I’m just giving credit here where credit is due. Apparently, the idea of pairing up Patrick and April came from a group of Bunco enthusiasts that gather every so often to roll the dice in the Lexington suburbs. And so, I’m told, that one of their first dates, if not their very first date, was at the annual Couple’s Night for this Bunco group. The rest, as they say, was history.

 

Bunco, as that group will tell you, is a game of chance.  Yet, this ‘match made in Bunco’ has never been about chance or the run of luck. It is no accident that Patrick met April again years after graduating from Mary Queen School, that being together has made both of them happier than they have ever been in their lives, that they are now here to declare before God and His people their commitment to live as husband and wife from this day forward. While indeed this is a ‘match made in Bunco,’ it is first a match made in Heaven. But hey, I’m just giving credit here where credit is due.

 

Patrick and April, this marriage did not just come about by a stroke of your luck; it is part of God’s plan for your happiness on this earth. This is what the story of the creation of woman from the Book of Genesis reminds all of us today. From the dawn of time, the Lord God has intended for the man to have the woman as his suitable partner. In fact, the Lord God created woman for man, and man for woman. And just as the first husband had said of the first wife, so should you, Patrick, say of your bride, April: “This one, at last, is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh” (Gen. 2:23). This is the one who, thank God, will complement you, annoy you to no end, stand by you through thick and thin, at times boss you around the house or on the basketball court, care for you when you are sick, love you, complete you.

 

Here you are—the two of you who have left your fathers and your mothers—brought here by God to become one body (Gen 2:24). You have come here to God’s Church to stand before me, His priest, and this crowd, His people, and to acknowledge that indeed it is God who has brought the two of you together and it is God who will bind you as one for the rest of your days. You have come here to hear of God’s plan, indeed His commandment, for your marriage: “love one another as I love you” (Jn. 15:12).  

 

Patrick and April, this is what it means for your marriage to be a sacrament: that you fulfill God’s plan for your lives, that you follow His commandment to love each other as He loves you. All of us live beneath the shadow of His love, the love that He manifested so tangibly and so graphically on the cross. See there on that cross the love of the God who never held anything back. Neither pain nor death, neither horror nor humiliation could stop Christ from proving to us the length and depth of His love. That cross is God’s “I love you” to the world. That is how God loves us and that is how all of us as followers of Christ are called to love one another. That too is the kind of love that He calls you as husband and wife to give to each other in this marriage: a selfless love, a self-giving love, a love that does not hold anything back. 

 

This is a tall order, I know. But as our Lord Jesus Christ said in the Gospel that you yourselves chose to be read for this Nuptial Mass: “I have told you this so that my joy might be in you and your joy might be complete” (Jn. 15:11). Embrace the fact that your love is a sacrament of God’s love and God’s plan for your happiness will be fulfilled. Because if you love without ever holding anything back, then you will find that neither the better nor the worse, neither riches nor poverty, neither sickness nor health can separate you from each other. None of those odds will tear asunder what God has joined together (cf. Mt. 19:6).

 

Patrick and April, we know that you are a ‘match made in Bunco.’ But we also know that this marriage is a match made in Heaven. Today and for the rest of your lives, this marriage will be a match bound by Heaven. Bet your lives in Christ and remain in His love (Jn. 15:9) and this marriage will be a match destined for Heaven.    

Wedding Homily: It Always Ends Up in Church

•Saturday, May 31, 2008 • Leave a Comment

Homily for the Nuptial Mass uniting Melissa Medroso to Hao Doan

Preached on May 31, 2008 at Saint Mildred Catholic Church, Somerset KY

Readings: Genesis 2:18-24; Psalm 145: 8-9, 10, 15, 17-18; 1 Corinthians 12:31-13:8a, Matthew 19: 3-6.

 

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There is an old Filipino saying that goes: Pagkahabahaba man ng prusisyon, sa Simbahan rin ang tuloy. However long the procession may go, it always ends up in Church.

 

Well, yesterday at the rehearsal, some of us who were not from Somerset got a little lost and made our own little ‘processions’ around this charming Southern town. We faced one-way streets and dealt with directions and GPS commands that didn’t make sense. Others even had their own police escort on their way here. But, however lost we got, we all ended up here in Church, albeit that some arrived later than others.

 

However long the procession may go, it always ends up in Church.

 

Hao and Missy, the two of you have had your own journeys as well. You have proceeded through life and have found yourselves in very different places at very different times. Hao went from Saigon to Ohio. Missy went from Somerset to Louisville to California to Cincinnati. Along the way, you have picked up friends that are now here as your other brothers and sisters for life. Then, as you walked on these journeys, your paths met and you began to walk together and that walking together has led you to this day in this sacred place. However long the journey went, it has brought you here in Church.

 

It is very important that you remember this, that you understand why you are here of all places, before me of all people, a minister of the Church, in the company of your family and friends, in this house of God. You are here because the Lord has led you here, because God who is Love put the spark of love that now burns in your hearts, a love that He will keep burning in your hearts for years to come. This is exactly what our readings from Sacred Scriptures remind you today: that the Lord our God has a purpose to all this, that this is part of His wise and loving design, that He has meant for you to be together now and for the rest of your lives as husband and wife. The Lord God has brought the two of you together. He will bind the two of you two together. He will keep you together for the rest of your lives.

 

Remember this, Hao, when you look at your wife now and for years to come because, just as the first husband, Adam, said of the first wife, Eve, “this one, at last is bone of [your] bones and flesh of [your] flesh” (Gen 2:23). Remember this, Missy, when you look at your husband now and for years to come and entrust to him your love and your life, your heart and your home. Remember St. Paul’s words, that “[love] bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things” (1 Cor 13:7).

 

But, we all know that it’s not always smiles and laughter, and that is why it is also important to understand what you are promising to one another: that you will be true to each other whether the times are good or the times are bad, whether you are healthy or you are sick, whether you are rich or you are poor, whether you are in your best or you are in your worst. When you proceed out of this Church to begin your married life, you will face many different roads in your journey. You will face roadblocks where only forgiveness and understanding will open up the way. There will be dead-ends and roundabouts. And just when you think that you’re getting better at this thing called marriage, you will find yourselves making a complete u-turn. When that happens, don’t give up. Walk on together. The storms will come and go but keep on walking together. This is the important word today and for the rest of your lives: together. You will be bound together. You will live together. You will rejoice together. You will overcome together. You will proceed together for what “God has joined together, no one can tear asunder” (Mt 19:6).  

 

Hao and Missy, just a while ago, you processed separately down the aisle. But here you are now, together, in God’s Church. In a few moments, the Lord God will bless your union. The Lord God will sanctify your union. The Lord God will consecrate your union and you will “no longer [be] two but one flesh” (Mt 19:6). How fitting it is then that you are here before God’s altar where we will celebrate the Eucharist, where the Lord God will bless the bread and wine, the Lord God will sanctify the bread and wine, the Lord God will consecrate the bread and wine, and they will no longer be mere bread and mere wine, but rather the one Body and Blood of Christ. Here, before God’s altar, you will celebrate your holy union. Here, before God’s altar both of you will receive Holy Communion. Thus, shall your journey come to this point and proceed from this point, with God’s guidance, with God’s help, with God’s grace.

 

Pagkahabahaba man ng prusisyon—however long the procession may go–sa Simbahan rin ang tuloy­­—it always ends up in Church. God has brought you here, Missy and Hao. When you are ready, we can ask Him to lead you from here to a life together, and we hope and we pray that He may bring you together into the joys of His Kingdom.

Joseph

•Monday, May 1, 2006 • Leave a Comment

 

JOSEPH

 by Noel F. Zamora

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wordless wonder! the Word made flesh—

so whispered the wingèd messenger—

awaits the world’s welcome

in the womb of my unwounded wife

 

How could He who fathered

my fathers call me His father?

 

I was dumbstruck

with gratitude

to say no.

 

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